Saturday, November 7, 2009

SAF: Introduction

Hi Everyone- I'm Kayoko. I'm almost 30. I am a professional eater and aspiring food writer.

I'm also single. VERY (S)ingle. (A)sian. (F)emale.

By VERY single, I mean I have not been in a serious relationship in nearly five years, nor do I really date. In fact, I hate dating. I know I need to do it in order to finally meet the right person-- "You've gotta kiss a lot of frogs..." as my friend says.

It can be thrilling, yes. But for me--an intensely independent person who gets comfortable immediately and is pretty brash by nature-- it's hard to concede, act demure, and constantly check (and double check) what to say, or how to behave. "Play the game." It's like walking on eggshells, it's so exhausting.

So I don't. Some guys can take it. Most of them can't.

The latter is the reason why I am here. I'll be one single girl perspective for THE BLOWOFF- cause yes, we've all been blown off, but I'm a writer here that is STILL getting The Blow Off. Sometimes, when appropriate, I am the one blowing off.

All in real time.

So the frogs must be kissed. Sometimes, we'll even sleep with them. If nothing else, it's for character building. And, of course, good writing material for your pure entertainment.

Thanks to Sara and Slim for starting this rad forum. Let's have fun! I'll take a JT and Andy Samberg sandwich, thanks.

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