Thursday, July 11, 2013

Would You Rather? The Partying VS Hooking Up Edition

If I haven't made myself abundantly clear by now, there's nothing that I'd rather be doing than having sex.  Okay, maybe dancing with Mick Jagger again (that memory is really all I have in life so I had to throw it in there), but at the end of the day that leads us back to sex.  So yeah, there's nothing I'd rather be doing at any given moment of the day than having sex.  And I was shocked when I recently came to learn that most men that I know do not share this same sentiment.

I recently asked them if they would rather go to an after-party or have sex.  The answer was unanimous.  Party.  There was of course, have sex, leave the girl there, go party with my friends, come back for a second round of sex.  And some other gems sprinkled in as well.  But if pushed to choose only one, they all chose partying with their friends.

I just have to give a big WTF here.  Where did the men go?  Remember when we were growing up and we were told that men only have one thing on their mind?  How about that men think about sex once every seven seconds?  Apparently all of that was BS and men are really thinking about vodka and cigarettes instead of pussy.

It seems like the male sex drive has decreased over the past few years.  I have numerous female friends complaining to me that they want to have sex more than their partner and sometimes they feel like they are having to even beg for sex or even go as far as saying that they feel rejected by their boyfriend which is supposed to be part of the whole reason for being in a relationship- not being rejected.  I want to be with a man that finds me insatiable and has to have me.  Not someone that would rather try to re-live their days in the frat house.

So I'm asking all of you, what's the deal?  Do my friends and I just happen to know the guys with the lowest libidos in Los Angeles?  Is this normal?  It doesn't feel normal.  Where did the male sex drive go?  And if you have the answer to that question can you please find it and bring it back? After all, some of girls still just want to fuck.

XO,
Wannabe

7 comments:

  1. Do you wanna go to the beach for lunch to watch the rain?

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  2. i really think this is all connected to internet porn addiction. for some dudes i think that's just as satisfying and takes way less effort AND they don't have to worry about that a woman is going to get attached. it's sort of how why charlie sheen prefers to pay for sex. and i also think a good amount of these guys probably have drinking problems.

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    1. I'm not saying I disagree with you but that makes me SO sad. And I mean who doesn't watch a little internet porn but I'd take the real thing any day over solo cyber sex.

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    1. we're women, thank you very much.

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